She doesn’t have to be “beneath him” to be a bad match for him. We all discover certain personality traits that are dealbreakers for us. I wouldn’t be a match for somebody who is into extravagant spending on status symbols. Doesn’t make them bad, just reveals they have values that don’t align well with my own.
But I’m not really raising this question to rehash the arguments over Ts decision - I’m genuinely curious what everyone’s different values are around saying ILU and levels of commitment in dating.
