So K based on your postings you are still pretty bitter about your h leaving you many years ago. Why? Love isn’t forever. It’s certainly not a life commitment. That’s what you’re telling us.
MARRIAGE is a lifetime commitment. Dating and saying ILU is not. There's a reason we celebrate the commitment of marriage.
And actually, I'm not bitter about my divorce. I'm unhappy about the fact that my ex stole MY AGENCY by not being honest about who he was and what he was doing in the marriage. Instead he lied and deceived. I'm actually thrilled to be divorced from him now. I wish he'd be a better parent and not leave it all on my shoulders but that's just who he is, a narcissist.
