Yeah she brings up that stuff trying to get a reaction out of you. Great job not taking the bait. I suspect your monkey is looking for another branch to grab hold of right now. You are young enough if you want to take more time and GAL like a madman. It is my personal belief that these things are about timing and circumstances. I have zero problem with a “ this isn’t working for me and you are either in or you are out speech”. But obviously you have to follow through if she says your out. Things rarely get better on their own.