My attachment style is predominantly avoidant, but there are anxious components. Hers is anxious.

I didn't see the book Attachment on the reading list. Good read and pretty blunt about things.

Me: 47 w/ S10, D12, D3
Current T: 12; M: 11 years; BD1: 11-11-18; BD2: 22-04-22; STBXW: 41
Previous M: 4 years; Big D: 2004; XW: 48