I do think it was a little quick to have him move back in. Especially if he is still going to be involved with the OW. Please remember that you should not be engaging in sexual activity with him until 100% sure without a shred of a doubt that he is BOTH not involved with OW any longer AND that he is disease free. Yes this means he must go get tested for STDs. Again, another requirement.
I realise it is not an ideal decision. H told me that it is over with OW and showed the texts. For me, I am in under no impression that this is heading to reconciliation more than him helping me out during my last weeks of pregnancy. I am not intending to engage in any sexual activity at all with H and will still GAL and detach as usual.
Originally Posted by SteveLW
I get that living a part is expensive. However, I have seen a lot of situations on here and I can universally say that decisions in these situations based on money rarely, if ever, work out. Do not make decisions based on money. Do what is best for you, your son and your unborn child.
It's unfortunately near impossible for H to get a separate apartment. He is also still paying the rent for our apartment, which makes it difficult if getting a separate place means then he has to stop doing that. I am in no position to risk anything at the moment, especially because I'm about to give birth in 3/4 weeks time. I cannot even do most of the day-to-day activities, so having him around at least gives me some time to rest and some support around the apartment.
