This is why having a lawyer in these situations, to me, is mandatory. I've seen so many guys that try to nice their WAWs back by buying everything, agreeing to pay child support or spousal support BEFORE ordered to by a court, and it always backfires on them. Do not agree to anything financial without legal represenatation.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018