I personally would let a lawyer handle it. I know you guys can do it cheaper by yourselves and if it’s fair even better. However, not many, or any, WAS are reasonable. What they said yesterday means nothing today. Etc etc. and I don’t want to see you get 85% of the way there and than it all blows up over a disagreement and you end up with lawyers anyway.
With a lawyer handling things you can GAL better, detach better, cut out a whole lot of reasons for contact. I think it would help you focus on you. And that is the divorce busting way.
But if that doesn’t work for you that’s ok too.
Me: 40 EX:37 Together 17 years Married 16 years 5 kids, 20,18,15,14,11
