We read that verse from Song of Solomon at our wedding, although it was a different version: "I am my beloved's and my beloved is mine." So much for that vow.
Although I think what is going on in your M sounds wonderful, I don't know if I agree with your philosophy of giving him "complete control" of your ML frequency. But then again, it doesn't sound like you're really doing that. From what it sounds like, you are giving him your complete trust that he won't take advantage of the privilege of your current openness to ML with him. That's a bit different. Still, whatever works for you, keep doing it!
Hairdog - who wishes his W's eyes were "opened" a bit more to the possibility of the power of love and intimacy.
