All excellent advice. It’s been more than 8 days. We had been talking quite a bit on the phone prior to meeting. And maybe I am just that awesome, LH that he just wants to see me, duh. But seriously, yes, he can be a little insecure. But it wasn’t a deep convo about it. It was “ I just want to date you “ convo
It’s what works for us. I know the only time I think about dating multiple people is when I really am not into the one I am already dating. I like to keep my focus. He wants to keep his focus. Sometimes, it just clicks. Not often. That’s for sure but we just click.
ILU’s are not happening anytime soon. I take that pretty seriously and o don’t throw that word around . Anything in the beginning is infatuation. I don’t think you can truly love someone until you have had a disagreement or a hardship together. Love is how you handle stuff in when things aren’t all roses. He’s not love bombing me. He’s expressive with his feelings, but nothing over the top. I think early on I’m some cases, you can say to yourself “ I can see myself falling in love with this one” but yeah, you just can’t truly love someone that early on .
We just like spending time together, we can talk on the phone forever. I just don’t have any extra time or want to give any extra time to anyone else .
