We didn't ML last night, which was my husband's decision (he worked a 10-hour day, then came home and mowed the grass for 2 hours and was tired), but I gave him a 2 hour foot massage while watching a DVD earlier. He asked if it was okay that we didn't ML and I reminded him that he has complete control over the frequency and that he had seen for himself the night before that my PHYSICAL arousal and desire kick in after we start even when it's me doing him.

I noticed yesterday that thoughts and memories (all good) of ML with him crossed my mind several times throughout the day.

Even if you're on the right track, you'll get run over if you just sit there.
Will Rogers

To love at all is to be vulnerable. Love anything, and your heart will certainly be wrung and possibly be broken.
C. S. Lewis