Same problem as this one. I started to distance, sex dropped off, found faults in her, kept emotions bottled up... She was secure and wisely ended it after a few years. I blamed her, but looking back with today's eyes, I was finding any excuse to avoid intimacy. At least she didn't play games.


Me: 47 w/ S10, D12, D3
Current T: 12; M: 11 years; BD1: 11-11-18; BD2: 22-04-22; STBXW: 41
Previous M: 4 years; Big D: 2004; XW: 48