I'm Back after 1st DB (2)

[BL42]

LH19,

I am no psychic

LOL. BL I knew you were going to ask me that.

Don't sell yourself short. Maybe you are a psychic!

The guy she thought she was going to get together with after D dumped her. Then she started dating a a guy I know who everyone knew it wouldn't last.

Any clue after all that why she isn't thinking why did I break up my family for this? I know, not your monkey not your circus.

At times I struggle with how my ExW landed into a mirrored situation living with OM2, across from his sister, BIL and niece, with her mom moving back into town. I know I should drop that thinking and have done better but I hear these post-D dating stories and wonder how she stepped right into a seemingly perfectly fitting relationship/family life without skipping a beat.

I think they may still be dating but I saw her on a dating app a coupe weeks ago.

That has to give you at least a small smile on your face and sense of validation, no? Also...it must be a weird feeling coming across your ExSpouse on a dating app. another poster mentioned a few months ago seeing their Ex on OLD platform with the "I'm am a sl*t" in the description LOL Bizarre.

She was a monkey brancher when I met her, a monkey brancher when she left and not surprisingly apparently still a monkey brancher.

I guess many people don't change - it's hard enough to change even if you're actively trying.

Again I am not saying she isn't happier divorced I am just saying there are zero signs of that being the case.

Gotcha. Makes sense.