I am 4 years divorced and my WW hasn't tried but I haven't exactly left the road home paved. I can tell you that her life isn't how she planned either. She's still alive so we shall see.
Out of curiosity, what about her life hasn't gone as planned? Anything related to BD/D?
Me:39 Ex-W:37 M:7 T: 9 S:6 D:3 BD/IHS/Confirm EA/PA: Feb '20 OM1 affair ends: May '20 W/OM2 & moves out: June-July '20 W files for D: Jul20 OM2 confirmed: 9/2020 Divorced: May '21