You are right, she's done. She told her parents finally.
Josh I am no psychic these situations all typically play out the same way. If you want to reconcile it is going to have to be down the road. SteveLW believes that eventually 90% of the WWs will want to reconcile and some point unless the WW dies first. I am 4 years divorced and my WW hasn't tried but I haven't exactly left the road home paved. I can tell you that her life isn't how she planned either. She's still alive so we shall see.
Originally Posted by Josh_T
I looked at her today, and felt sorry for her. I can't image how she felt when she told her parents.
Yeah I bet it was difficult. Believe it or not no one wants to get divorced. Telling the parents is a pretty good sign that there is no turning back in the near future.
Originally Posted by Josh_T
Today my S acted up, and I wasn't around. I could see it in her face the realization there will be days like this, and I won't be around.
Yeah so you need to stop this kind of thinking. You don't want her back to be her living babysitter. You want her back because she desires you as a man. We have had people recon for the wrong reasons where they are either BD again or they live their life waiting for the other shoe to drop. Not a fun life! It's gonna take some time and you have to fix your anxious attachment first or you are going to go through relationship after relationship.
Originally Posted by Josh_T
I'm off to the gym. After 8 months of hard work, I finally hit my 2nd weight loss goal. I'm now 3/4 through my transformation.
