Accidentally posted before I finished my reply.

I think she told me because she needed to feel safe telling someone and won’t get that from her parents, sad to say but it’s true. She also said she didn’t want her step dad to freak out, which is normal or understandable but not helpful. Idt she’s trying to get my attention, she hasn’t said much about it since the first couple talks. I worry more that she will try to bury it and not deal with it.

Originally Posted by job
I am sorry to read what has happened. I'm glad to read that she saw a doctor and spoke to the police. Is there any way that you can go look at the car and see just how much damage was done?

She called you because she knows that she can trust you....but at some point, she is going to need to tell her family about the accident if they should ask about the car. I hope and pray that this is a wake up call for her and she gets all of the help she needs.

Hope you and the kids are doing okay.

Her car is totaled and it got towed so I’m not sure what she told them. I hope this wakes her up as well, it’s hard to see thi.

My kids are doing well, it’s hard to believe how fast they are growing up. S13 is my height and jr high has been a lot better for him than the last 2 years and he enjoyed school this year. D12 is doing good and just made the city jr orchestra. I’ve been hearing her sing around the house lately too, she was like a bird before the MLC and it’s nice to see her that happy again.