Thanks for the support, it feels better not holding that in.

Originally Posted by kml
That sounds awful.

I do have one question for you - or maybe two:

Why do you think YOU are the person she told?

Do you believe her story?

Not saying stuff like this doesn’t happen to women - it certainly does - but could she be making up a story to protect herself against you learning she got drunk and wrecked her car? Or did it really happen but she picks you to tell the story to in a bid for your attention?

I’ve thought a lot about these things. I’m sure it happened but I also know there may be some things she left out. She could have easily hid everything from me as she is in a different city/state and back here for her weeks w/the kids. I think she told me because she trusts me like Job said she also told me she doesn’t feel safe.