I also wanted to pop in and let you know it saddened me to hear about your friend (as well as your dad) dying from pancreatic cancer. Sending you hugs and positive thoughts. And keep us posted if you do look into your own cancer risk. It's scary to look but knowing will allow you time to intervene...
Hugs, El
Me 52, H 56 T10 M7, 2nd MR for both 2 Step Sons (19 and 21) BD: Fall 2020 D finalized: July 2022 XH Married AP soon after D day.