My husband's still out of town. I'm just trying to establish a habit of journaling here to keep from backsliding. I've almost finished Hot Monogamy by Patricia Love (she wrote the forward to TSSM, and Michele listed her books, Hot Monogamy and The Truth about Love, as recommended reading). The Truth about Love is next on my reading list. Sometimes I get a little tired of all this reading, but it (plus listening to the KLA tapes) helps to reinforce the changes in behaviors and attitude I'm striving for.
Hot Monogamy with its step-by-step program with many worksheets and exercises made me realize that I don't know my husband as well as I thought. I'll give him the book to read or look through and offer to do the program with him if he wants (I hope he does).
Even if you're on the right track, you'll get run over if you just sit there. Will Rogers
To love at all is to be vulnerable. Love anything, and your heart will certainly be wrung and possibly be broken. C. S. Lewis