Thank you SteveLW and kml for your inputs. I will just order the books to read through on my maternity leave along with all the other books on acceptance, divorce, as well as some Family Law books to prepare myself. I understand that I need to lift the focus away from H and onto the baby helps heaps! I am nesting slowly but surely and since last week have only relied on myself and my friends to get baby stuff. My cousins and some of my friends have agreed to share time to take care of my son and help me out at home. I just need to work out the schedules with them.
