Thanks, the issue is short term, I agree long term. I will miss out on a lot of time with D2, so where I was heading was that until we have permanent places. Meaning 6 months or so. At that point, when we have our own places, it's strict.
Hi Josh,
Be wary of accepting less than 50/50 custody. Custody can be challenging. In my experience, those who don't prioritize 50/50 custody short-term don't prioritize it long-term.
"Dropping by" is not sustainable. Phone calls or video calls are. My S2 wasn't up for conversations at that age, but he loved when I sang the alphabet or planet song to him!
Originally Posted by Josh_T
I told her no emotional conversations, no longer appropriate.
Just be sure you're not being controlling by telling her what to do or what's appropriate for her to do.
If you don't wish to engage in a particular conversation, it's fine not to.
