Ok, saw some more replies. Just so I understand josh, long-term do you want 50% custody?
Yes, and by default in Australia, that is the case. Custody is different to where they live, and child support factors that in. No concerns there.
L is tomorrow, no worries there. I've already compiled all the financial infos I need.
I don't know, I'll think about it is a great response that I'm not used to. She can emotionally ambush, so I need to learn that more.
Thinking it over, deep down I do want to get her back, despite knowing there is so much I need from her. Stalling the sale, avoiding telling the kids, fits with that. Again, I shouldn't speculate, but deep down I wonder if she is doing the same, having doubts, and cooling off. Or we are both so co-dependent, and deluding ourselves.
