Josh, ur geting really good advice hear. Listen to it!

Get a Lawyer!!

Also, it’s ok to say I don’t know.
“I don’t know, I need to think that through and right now I’m busy.”
Or even:
“This is all new, I want to see D2 everyday but I’m not sure I will feel comfortable coming to your place.

Me: 34
Stbxw: 30
D:5 D:3
Mini bd: May/June 2019
Married: Aug 2019
BD: 6th Dec 2019
OM Confirmed: Feb 2020
March 2020: I filed for D
Waiting for D to be finalized and W to move out end of January 2021