You are right about the trust. She is anxious, and very sensitive to those sort of things. Sometimes rightly so, other times not. Moving out was a knee jerk reaction. But the staying longer was her idea, and I agreed. I need to focus more on consistency there. I see what you mean, even though she's happy with the outcome, she still doesn't trust me because I accepted the change.

ATM, it's not that awkward together, we've talking and co-habitating fine. Selfishly, as I said, I got more D2 time, and know that when the time comes, it will be a slower pace. It also gives me some room to GAL without being distracted by move logistics.


Me: 47 w/ S10, D12, D3
Current T: 12; M: 11 years; BD1: 11-11-18; BD2: 22-04-22; STBXW: 41
Previous M: 4 years; Big D: 2004; XW: 48