Thanks, the issue is short term, I agree long term. I will miss out on a lot of time with D2, so where I was heading was that until we have permanent places. Meaning 6 months or so. At that point, when we have our own places, it's strict.
But I see where you are going with this, and again, maybe that needs to be put forward now, so W understands the boundaries of a new life. I'm willing to do this at the expense of my recovery time so I can see my D2. It will be a very long time before I'm in any position for a new R. I dunno, is that a problem?
Interestingly, it's in the middle of the night, and I was looking at the planets when W joined me. I told her no emotional conversations, no longer appropriate. She was about to cry, but held back and said it doesn't feel right to suddenly disrupt the kdis, lets wait 6 months. And not tell the kids until later.
This is a change, because being so money focuaed, it will give up maybe 10% value. I'm happy with this, because I have enough work s**t going on, and now I have to prepare for a house sale? I'm not going to speculate on her emotional state. But it certainly works for me.
