He is an open book and has told me why his previous relationships didn’t work. Last long term GF cheated. First wife they were 21 and kids. They got pregnant. They tried abs didn’t make it. He is truly an open book and will answer and offer anything. It’s nice. I’m sure there is more to find out.
Lots of us have a past and a very difficult one at that. The work and healing you do and how you handle stuff is so important. We are all works in progress. Hey, my past traumas and my story might be a red flag to most. Until they know how I handle my sh!t.
My friends used to say chose the guy who would drive an hour to spend 5 min with you. He’s that guy so far. Time will tell, but I’m going to enjoy the ride