Nice to hear the job is going well. I’m sure you retained and took plenty of notes.
Originally Posted by Stella20
Realized on Sunday that my plates on my truck were going to expire at the end of the month. My truck is in H's name so when he changed his address the registration card must have went there. I text him to see if he had it, but he said he did not. I would imagine since OW works from home she got it in the mail and threw it away. Pretty sure thats a felony, so I will be letting the lawyer know about that.....
As BL said, speculation on your part.
Let it go my dear. No need to report such a minor offence. The feelings/beliefs you will inspire within yourself by taking the high road will eclipse any fleeting revengeful satisfaction. Although it is sure fun to dream about her getting a comeuppance.
Originally Posted by Stella20
H called last Thursday, because he kept getting text from ATT that I was trying to change stuff. I answered, didn't want him to think I was being shaddy...
Currently, and in this context, I agree with answering the call. H was having troubles and likely would blame you. Hmmmm. Of course he’d blame you, that what these folks do. Point being, you defused a potential problem with a wee call. And that is rather important during divorce proceedings. No need to exasperated the situation. Big picture view.
Originally Posted by Stella20
Well, after I told him what I was doing, I was going to end the call.. He told me that the furnace filters need to be changed, figured I woulld not have thought of that ( I did ) Told me that I need to change the batteries on the smoke alarms, said he usually does it on daylight savings weeks. Asked again if I needed help with the pool. Told me he was going to get a storage shed to get his stuff out of the way cuz he knows how I hate having a messy house/garage. I told him that after June 6th he would only have a week or two to get his stuff out of the house. He was trying to joke with me while he was on the phone. I was polite, and listened to him ramble. Then I told him, well it Thursday and I know your Thursdays are busy so I will let you go, thanked him for reminding me of the house stuff. Then he repeated what I said in a really sad voice, and he was sniffling. I think he was crying...
Funny how he prolonged the call. You did very well. It must have been difficult to listen to him and hear his sadness. Good job remaining polite and cordial.
Originally Posted by Stella20
But he is right back to his partying every night every weekend... they are going to Vegas for 7 days next week for bowling. So guess whatever sadness he felt was short lived. Ugh... he is so lost.. small glimpses of the man I thought I knew, but actions speak loader than words..he is still running and I don't think he will ever stop.
It’s pretty wild isn’t it? They peak out and then run again.
Yep, actions vs words.
Originally Posted by Stella20
he is out there living like a rockstar with no responsibiltys..jerk...
Lol.
Jerk. Haha
The voice I have of you talking in my head as I read your words, said “jerk” in such a tone and manner. I am pretty sure I captured and mirrored your sentiment rather well. And yes, what a jerk.
Take care my friend. Hope you have a wonderful weekend.
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Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.
