Don’t move out. That’s a weak move… You want to be making power moves. Plus, most lawyers and vets on this site recommend against it.
If you can’t be in the house together any longer (which I don’t think you should be, given the risk of emotion driven interactions) - then ask her to leave. VIA EMAIL. AFTER CHECKING WITH YOUR LAWYER.
“I don’t think in-house-separation is working. While I don’t agree with anyone walking away from marriage, I respect your decision to end this relationship and therefore think you should find alternative accommodation while we wade through the process of selling the house.”
She’s going to throw her toys out of the pram, but then you’ve spent your whole marriage making decisions based on fear, and how well has that worked out so far?
She won’t say this directly, but for once she’ll respect the sh*t out of you.
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She even insinuated I was hiding money
Classic WW/WAW. In her own head, she needs to make herself feel better about what she’s doing by fabricating blame against you.
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I find it odd Slshe's not willing to put in the effort on settlement and not willing to see a lawyer.
Of course not! She needs a backup plan in case things don’t work out, so she doesn’t want to burn her bridges. Keeping you in her back pocket as plan B. This is also why she said to you “I can see us being together in a few years after we have divorced.” Monkey branching 101.
