What an absolute train wreck.

1. Don’t interact/discuss/argue/sms/email until coming here first. Even if you have to wait for 24 hours for someone to respond.

2. Get a lawyer ASAP.

You’re doing fine, don’t beat yourself up. Know that this train wreck could have been avoided by minimising interactions and being prepared to deal with her without emotions getting in the way.

Take it as a learning experience - where emotion is involved, everyone loses.