I'm thinking, since I work in the office two days a week, I should let her know I'll be absent on those ecenings so I can do my own thing. She has to learn I won't be around like I am now.
You should go out and GAL. But you don't do it to "teach her a lesson". When you say "she has to learn" it makes it sound controlling and manipulative. Do it for yourself!
See, I can't get detach. Still framing it about her emotions!
Originally Posted by Mumin
Before D while IHS I set up a 2,2,3 schedule which worked well. It give each S every other weekend and isn’t as big of a step for the kids. On my days “off” childcare I tried to GAL and not be home as much as possible. Hit the gym! Your mind and body need it!
Uh, I just finished an email to her on the very topic of schedule!
