I'm Back after 1st DB (2)

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ovrrnbw/LH19,

Makes sense? You're throwing in the towel. She deserves pursuing sexual satisfaction and happiness.

It's comments like this that solidify my stance that marriage is a joke.

Traveler just out of curiosity what in your mind changes if he didn't throw in the towel which he hasn't BTW?

I'm not sure what he was trying to say but man it stinks like a pile of $#% around the corner.

I'm a pro marriage guy and I think Traveler's heart is always in the right place, I just really disagree with this (maybe I missed something).

I'm with you guys here. I didn't get this comment either. Someone wants to pursue more exciting sex so it's cool if they go off and have affairs and divorce their spouse? One of the least pro-marriage comment you could make. Marriage as an institution has certainly crumbled in our society - seems like this stuff is barely frowned upon anymore.

Josh_T,

Yeah, in the morning she was sulky, probably thinking about our sitch. Later, she was trying to attempt like everything is normal. Wanting to chat whilst I'm playing with my younger daughter. Trying to engage me and the older kid with jokes. It's hard to DB here because there are child things everyday.

This is speculation. You don't know what she's thinking. Focus on yourself instead of spending time trying to read her mind. No doubt IHS is tough, I don't disagree.

I'm thinking, since I work in the office two days a week, I should let her know I'll be absent on those ecenings so I can do my own thing. She has to learn I won't be around like I am now.

You should go out and GAL. But you don't do it to "teach her a lesson". When you say "she has to learn" it makes it sound controlling and manipulative. Do it for yourself!