Originally Posted by LH19
It's almost impossible to detach during IHS so that is why I am trying to convince you to move the process along as quick as possible.
You're right. It's hard under the same roof. The fact that I'm making comments on her mood is not detachment. In fact when I think about today, I didn't stop a single conversation with W.

To speed things up, I can see here is to communicate concrete times and days where I'm specifically with the kids, doing my own thing, or out of the house.


Me: 47 w/ S10, D12, D3
Current T: 12; M: 11 years; BD1: 11-11-18; BD2: 22-04-22; STBXW: 41
Previous M: 4 years; Big D: 2004; XW: 48