Yeah,thanks. Got Anniversary sorted (say thanks and leave) and for Mothers Day, just a card.
On the note of Saturday family visits to in laws, I'm going to pass on those for now. Actually, this Sat the real estate agent is coming, and I won't be around.
Yeah, in the morning she was sulky, probably thinking about our sitch. Later, she was trying to attempt like everything is normal. Wanting to chat whilst I'm playing with my younger daughter. Trying to engage me and the older kid with jokes. It's hard to DB here because there are child things everyday.
I'm thinking, since I work in the office two days a week, I should let her know I'll be absent on those ecenings so I can do my own thing. She has to learn I won't be around like I am now.
I think IHS is where sandi's rules really come into play. I think (could be misremembering) that her and her husband were IHS. I was in IHS and had a copy of sandi's rules with me at all times to keep them in the forefront of my mind. Obviously, GAL, self-improvements and detachment are important too, but sandi's rules really guided my IHS interactions with her. And they had a profound effect!
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
