I've made a point of not paying any attention at all to this - I can't imagine knowing those details without feeling like some of the dirt has rubbed off on myself.
I recall when I was dating "S" that she would also be pretty relentless with the pressure about things until I gave in. Certainly something to watch out for.
On BD H52, W50 T27, M26 S21, D23 BD-9-Mar-16 D-15-Jan-18 Final-19-Apr-18 I am a storyteller. The story may do you no good. But a story is never for the listener. It is always for the one who tells