So last night was nice. I came home and took a nap on H before he went to work. I missed him sooo bad after he left. I was tempted to go drop in--I haven't been to the club in a while--but I didn't want to hassle him at work. He told me later he only worked security last night, and was outside checking ID's anyway, so I could have just gone and hung out with him. Ah, well. I'm thinking of going with BIL2 there tonight. Maybe dyeing my hair and getting a new outfit... I want to make sure to maintain the mystery, he really likes that stuff.

We talked some about how xrm used to always call him when he was with me. I always found it suspicious (every time we were together!) but he always brushed it off. So I asked him about it again, and he said that she had just always called him a lot. And he never thought much of it, but now it does kind of bug him that she always called when he came to see me.

He also told me he thinks that, in her mind, when she moved in, that made them a couple. (Which is weird, because it wasn't even close to that...she actually asked him about the spare room...) I don't know. Anybody happen to know the word for someone who believes their own lies?? It's been driving H and I crazy!

He also set a personal ringtone for her number and added a nutty picture to it. LOL. Kind of mean, but definately funny.

When he came in this morning (for a guy who is not living with me, he is here a lot!), he said he was hungry, and asked me to treat him to breakfast. So I drug myself up and we went out to Denny's.

On the way, I mentioned the KLA CD's again, and H actually asked me to put one in. (WOW!) So I popped in #2 (I didn't have #1 with me), which deals with "The Blame Game." We listened to it on the way to the restaurant, and he even waited in the car to finish the part we were listening to. He seemed to really pay attention. He agreed that we did sound kind of like the pair on the CD.

He told me once we were there that, guess who, psycho had called. (Yes, he's calling xrm psycho now!) She had called a few times before finally leaving him a message--some garbage about she was sorry, she was only mad because she was on her period, she didn't understand why he didn't have just a few minutes for her, blah blah blah. Guess she's wanting to "make up" now. Annoying...

In the car we listened to the KLA CD some more. It was at the part where Michele discusses the "it takes one to tango." H was thoroughly intrigued. Then he decided that that was why he was good with people. (He is right--how he adjusts how he interacts with different people.) Then I said I knew it worked, because it had worked with him. He laughed it off, said that he had made lots of adjustments, and didn't really think that I had been able to "influence" him in that way. LOL! I could have been irritated...but the proof is in all of my posts... Yes, I give H tons of credit for doing his own thinking and changing some stuff on his own. But if he thinks DB didn't work on him...hah!...he's just wrong. The whole thing was kind of funny.

So after we got up again later, I asked H something about xrm. I really should just learn to drop the subject, but I'm actually glad I did ask. I asked him why he hadn't seen how her behavior indicated that she liked him. He said he did see it--but that he always wanted to give her the benefit of the doubt. That he knew how people always misinterpreted him as being interested in other people (which is true) and he thought maybe she was just the same way. This, I actually found very comforting. It makes a lot of sense to me...H does think this way.

And I could see this in another convo we had. He said something really off-hand, and it did sound like he was making a "I wouldn't date xrm if..." statement, when that was really not it at all.

I was actually typing this while H was in the room. He started to wander over, and I asked him not to read over my shoulder. He back off pretty quick, said he would never invade my privacy. I explained it's not that I mind, it's just that there's a lot in here he might take completely wrong. He said it was okay, he respected my privacy. He's sitting in the same room with me, playing video games.

Have a good day all, it's really hot and humid here today.

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