It's our wedding anniversary and Mothers day coming up. I know she said there is a card and a book on attachment coming my way (A bit too late for the book IMHO). I don't know is if it was thought out pre-BD or post. I'm going to say pre-BD with foreknowledge that BD was coming. I'm wondering, what do I get in return? I've seen some comments about nothing. But knowing there is something coming my way, and we both were so apathetic last year, we didn't do anything, and so close to BD . . .

For Mothers Day, I'm assuming a card with a picture of the kids and something along the lines of "look at the great thing we did"


Me: 47 w/ S10, D12, D3
Current T: 12; M: 11 years; BD1: 11-11-18; BD2: 22-04-22; STBXW: 41
Previous M: 4 years; Big D: 2004; XW: 48