She needs to fully believe that you will not be there for her if she chooses to return, and that if she wants to come back she's going to have to work for it.
You can't tell her that, she'll never believe it. You have to show her that beyond a doubt with your actions.
- Is there any specific action you recommend? - Anything to make this realization faster? - Anything to make this realization more effectively understood?
My constraint is IHS and parenting our special needs child. I am his always-on therapist so need to with him or be at home quite a bit. Still doing plenty of GAL but not meeting / unable to meet new people - is that important in the above context?
Btw, even though I want the MR to be saved, I am unsure if I really care whether she thinks she has a safety net or not.
