See the beauty in this (YOUR) boundary. She will test, you will enforce. Her sending you a text is fine. Her leaving a voice mail is fine. You always have time to process what she says, and then respond in a well crafted email if needed.
Hold your boundary.
Love it! A boundary CONTROLS YOU. She will surely test if you can stick to your boundaries.
Try not to cave (weak) but also try not to tell her what to do (controlling).
