Holy cr*p. I heard this exact line too! She said I'd come over and she'd make dinner for me and the kids.
My brother is best friends with his XW. They do exactly that--Brother + Brother's GF have dinners, vacations, and shared businesses with Brother's XW + Brother's XW's Husband.
I've always envied him that! Upon BD, he wouldn't have imagined!
He managed to work through his anger within 2yrs.
I prefer firmer boundaries with my XW. The cause and process of divorce may say something about each others' suitability as future friends--did we try therapy and find an inherent incompatibility, or did one of us cheat? Do we feel residual attraction, or are we both happier with other fish in the sea?
