Tho is actually a really great boundary that most LBS should apply ASAP (unless one has a very clear stance/view). I certainly should have. Because I had no clue. Frankly I’m still not certain how to handle some situations (recently I was invited to the first post-D party where both me and XW are invited and hosts have really been keen on me being there)
Some friends of ours are in this situation. She left him after having an A, for the AP. He moved on met a new lady and married her. Been to two get togethers in the last two months where all three of them have been there (her AP and her fizzled out). Very awkward not only for them and their kids, but for all of us there. I guess it is impossible to believe that you'll never cross paths again at social events, but at least the first few are awkward.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
