Originally Posted by PeterB
I set a boundary on post-D talk.
Tho is actually a really great boundary that most LBS should apply ASAP (unless one has a very clear stance/view). I certainly should have. Because I had no clue. Frankly I’m still not certain how to handle some situations (recently I was invited to the first post-D party where both me and XW are invited and hosts have really been keen on me being there)


Me: 34
Stbxw: 30
D:5 D:3
Mini bd: May/June 2019
Married: Aug 2019
BD: 6th Dec 2019
OM Confirmed: Feb 2020
March 2020: I filed for D
Waiting for D to be finalized and W to move out end of January 2021