But I would be careful assuming she will never want to R again. My WW was well down all of those paths as well before a fairly quick turnaround. It can happen.
Funny that. On more than one occasion she floated the idea of LAT since it removed domesticity. And she also suggested over the years, when she vocally said she wants to leave, she could see a time where post D she could fall for me again. Problem is 3x bombed, that feels like cake eating.
Cake eating is when doesn't want to be married or be a couple, but wants to play house and get the benefits from you of being married and being a couple. We see this all the time. Where when the chips are down and they need someone to be there, to fix something, to help them, they still call the LBS for that. (This can even be wanting sex!) I certainly think LAT falls into that category!
But many WASs have left, realized they made a mistake, and even after D decided they made a mistake. That can lead to a real R IF, IF the LBS is open to it. Most have moved on from it at that point.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
