Thanks for all this. Deep down, I know MR is finished. I know she's planning her financial future, beyond just selling the house. I see her browsing for new apartments, she has notes about trusts for kids, and is looking at International flights (to visit ex lover I suspect. I hope she doesn't expect me to take time off to look after the kids, because I stupidly did post BD 1. Talk about having no b@llz), and scribbled notes about child costs I'm expected to pay,
All standard procedure for WWs.
Originally Posted by Josh_T
Why would I want this W back who has left me 3x now? Who disrespected me the first week we moved in together. Who never once stood by me in my time of need, but always ensured, over the duration of our marriage, that I don't forget the numerous times I wasn't there exactly as she expected.
FEAR. Most people will settle for the $hitty known than the potential for something great.
Originally Posted by Josh_T
I'm not really DBing, am I?
What do you mean? To truly DB you are becoming a better version of yourself. Is that what you are doing?
