I'm Back after 1st DB

[BL42]

Here is the response from W on email communication, which was what she asked for yesterday.

"Meetings have a purpose. Face to face communication is useful, do you agree? I can't just use email it's not only very time consuming but also notorious for misunderstanding"

I'm happy to talk next week, but you must back it with an email.

It's up to you how you want to communicate going forward. She can't make you need weekly in person for the next 18 years any more than you can make her email you details and numbers. However, you can train her by only responding to emails so if she wants to communicate she knows trying to set up in=person or phone calls aren't effective. If you want to meet in person, go for it, but typically LBSs have a tough time in person not getting emotion or having R talks or having that hurt their attachment. A business-like email gives you time to ponder and respond succinctly.

I've dropped 40 pounds over the last 6 months, and about to start a weight lifting program.

It's incredible common the LBS loses a lot of weight. You wouldn't believe how many threads on here the person lost 20, 30, 40 pounds in a short period. It tends to creep back on though if you don't change for the long term. Keep up the gym and add in weight lifting program. Just wait how good you look and feel in a few months. You keep that up and you'll be incredibly confident and attractive.