Another quick update. H told me one morning when he picked up son that he is depressed and feels so down he finds it hard to even get out of bed. I know he has depression, bipolar, etc and I did think he is starting to be in one of his lows from how miserable he looks.
I hope I'm not being mean for thinking he got what he deserved. I know depression is hard and I'm sorry for being insensitive for all of you out there still struggling with depression, but in my particular situation, I feel a bit justified. When he left, I told him that he looks depressed and needs to go back to his doctor. He refused and denied being depressed. H kept saying that the anti depressants don't do anything and he never has time to do the therapies (yeah right, as if not being on drugs has helped at all).
Again, I know I am still technically his wife, but is it bad to think I cannot do anything about this? I told him I'm sorry that he is depressed and I could see that he was. I even went as far as telling him to go to our normal GP clinic and seeing the mental health specialist there, but I feel like it is not my responsibility anymore. It's not my fault he left and became depressed when his AP and life is not what he imagined it to be. I know either way, H (I'm sure his AP too) will blame me for putting pressure with the pregnancy and having to take care of my son as the cause of his depression.
One of my friends even told me to ignore him, that it is for his AP to take care of and he should be whining to her instead. I am completely happy with things being how they are at the moment, but I'm not sure if I should worry about his depression now, especially when it comes to him being depressed around my son.
