I haven't read all of your thread, I see she had a previous bomb drop in 2018. Which leads me to ask - how confident are you that she was faithful in between 2018 and today's AP? Are you positive your 1 year old is your biological daughter?
lol, yes. I've been fixed, it was IVF.
Originally Posted by BL42
Originally Posted by Josh_T
No, I don't want to sell, I love the house. It's my dream house on the beach.
Then personally I wouldn't commit to anything at this point, including signing on with a realtor.
Originally Posted by Josh_T
But there is no financial way for W to move on if it doesn't.
That sounds like her problem, not yours.
Originally Posted by Josh_T
If I block, I feel I'd just be getting her more angry and resentful.
You have to worry about what's in your best interest now, not hers. Don't make decisions based out of fear of what may or may not get her upset. Stand up for yourself and what you want; don't allow fear of her reaction bully you.
What to others think? A few replies back, someone said I'd just create a caged animal full of resentment if I block. Another says embrace the divorce, which means I accept selling with gusto. Lastly, would it seem manipulative if I said selling is not in the best interest of the kids? Which it is not, it will disrupt their lives.
