Husband MLC/Carzy

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Stella20,

New job is going good, actually starting to work in the system they have been training me in.

Awesome!

I would imagine since OW works from home she got it in the mail and threw it away. Pretty sure thats a felony, so I will be letting the lawyer know about that.....

It's fun to fantasize about revenge at times, but don't get consumed with it. This is speculation on your part w/o any evidence and you probably know L can't do anything about it.

Been spending time with my girlfriend and my niece going out on the weekends to see bands. I have made some new friends and even introduced my niece to a nice young man I met.

Great GAL, enjoy!

As for me there a couple of guys that are intrested, but I have my walls up and I am not ready for that at all. But its a nice ego bust.

Smart. You're still married, plus have a whole lot of healing to do.

Not much contact with H, he text me ever week on Wednesday or Thursday, but nothing this week.

Good. Hope it's helping you detach.

Cable is cancelled this weekend, I should probably let H know since he uses it to watch the Bucks game at the OW's house.. lol ahh maybe I will let him figure it out...lol

Yep, that's his problem now.

I answered, didn't want him to think I was being shaddy...

Is this Nice Girl Syndrome? Not answering the phone or talking to him isn't "shady", living with OW is. Plus, who cares what he thinks. Let it go to voicemail next time.

I told him that after June 6th he would only have a week or two to get his stuff out of the house.

Good. Now enforce what you said.

Then I told him, well it Thursday and I know your Thursdays are busy so I will let you go, thanked him for reminding me of the house stuff.

Good. Be the first to part ways.

Then he repeated what I said in a really sad voice, and he was sniffling. I think he was crying...

Too bad so sad. He's made his bed and now he has to sleep in it.

But he is right back to his partying every night every weekend... they are going to Vegas for 7 days next week for bowling. So guess whatever sadness he felt was short lived. Ugh... he is so lost.. small glimpses of the man I thought I knew, but actions speak loader than words..he is still running and I don't think he will ever stop.

Maybe not, but probably won't ride off in the sunset. Sounds like he has an unhealthy lifestyle.

I don't contact him

Good.

I don't know... seems like he is confused, he reaches out every week... But now I wait to respond.

Alright, but what about not responding at all?

He sees from my social media that I am going out, also he can see that I have new male friends, think he is realizing that I might be moving on. Who knows...

Could very well be, but he's not changing his actions. What would happen if you blocked him completely on social media so he has no idea what you're doing (and versa)?

Still have good days and bad days, but I am staying busy.

It's great you're staying busy. Keeping your mind on work, going out with friends, doing yard work...etc., all great GAL which will help with your attitude and outlook on life.

Makes me mad that he abandoned me to do all this by myself, while he is out there living like a rockstar with no responsibiltys..jerk...

I completely understand. Sometimes life's not fair.

Well, just wanted to check in with everyone. Divorce is June 6th, not looking forward to it, but at least the finacials will be work out soon and that will give me some relief. I just wish none of this would have happen, I miss my old H, I miss my old life. But.. I think that I still love the memory of H, but this H I am starting to not like so much..

Stella - Good update. You sound stronger now than in previous posts. Keep detaching and GAL'ing and this too shall pass. Your H sounds like a serial cheater and major jerk. Time to start sprinting in the other direction. We're all pulling for you.