Originally Posted by Josh_T
Apparently the real estate agent is popping over on Saturday.
Do you want to sell the house? I don't know the laws where you are, but I'd imagine you're not required to just because W is engaging a realtor, especially if no formal agreement / D proceedings have occurred.

No, I don't want to sell, I love the house. It's my dream house on the beach. But there is no financial way for W to move on if it doesn't. There is also no way for anyone of us to buy it out from the other. If I block, I feel I'd just be getting her more angry and resentful. At the same time, it's off market. It might take a while. And only when there is a compelling offer, do we have to face the music of a contract, agent agreement, etc.

W now wants a regular weekly catch up organised. I'm assuming to discuss progress on things. I'm not sure how I feel about that because it could easily turn into a forum for her to pressure things along. She SMSs "Lets try to find a good time to have a regular weekly catch up. Like for the next 18 year. LoL Maybe for now a weekend afternoon? We can chat about anything that happened, anything outstanding :)"


Me: 47 w/ S10, D12, D3
Current T: 12; M: 11 years; BD1: 11-11-18; BD2: 22-04-22; STBXW: 41
Previous M: 4 years; Big D: 2004; XW: 48