You are right. Let me focus on myself and my shortcomings and my own path in life.
Good attitude. I don't blame you for those thoughts - I've certainly had similar ones - but they also don't serve to help you detach, move forward, and improve your life.
Originally Posted by Josh_T
Apparently the real estate agent is popping over on Saturday.
Do you want to sell the house? I don't know the laws where you are, but I'd imagine you're not required to just because W is engaging a realtor, especially if no formal agreement / D proceedings have occurred.
Originally Posted by Josh_T
I'm from Australia.
You're in good company. Several here are from Australia. Perhaps OnlyBent or others will have some country-specific advice for you.
Me:39 Ex-W:37 M:7 T: 9 S:6 D:3 BD/IHS/Confirm EA/PA: Feb '20 OM1 affair ends: May '20 W/OM2 & moves out: June-July '20 W files for D: Jul20 OM2 confirmed: 9/2020 Divorced: May '21