Thanks. A good reminder. I lost that skill. I feel more balanced today, so I'm prepared. First challenge will be she wants to announce to her parents. I'm going to decline that I'm busy and say "I have confidence that you can manage without me".

Me: 47 w/ S10, D12, D3
Current T: 12; M: 11 years; BD1: 11-11-18; BD2: 22-04-22; STBXW: 41
Previous M: 4 years; Big D: 2004; XW: 48