But what if she brings it up again and again?---Btw, she has told me that her 'friend' is very sure I am doing this just to win her back and that it's mechanical and there is no love in the picture at all .
Just keep doing it for you. Little words, much action.
Change up your response, but keep the message clear that you are doing this for you.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712